Brian,

If you can offer some advice on this problem I’m having that would be really appreciated.

So, theres this girl that I’ve been kinda seeing for the past few weeks, about a week ago she told me she is addicted to crystal meth. She says she wants to get off it and is trying to use less and less but if she doesn’t use she cant function at all and just lies in bed feeling like shit. Her theory is this, just use enough so she can do things like work etc and gradually get off it. I don’t think that will work. I can understand why she uses, she has a really troubled past with alot of abuse and other bad things happening to her, most of which is too painful for her to even talk about, so using is her way to block it all out and feel better even if only for a while. She is also on a bunch of prescribed medicine for depression, anxiety, and taking tranquilizers etc.

I want to help her but really don’t know what I can do. Whenever we are together, if we are having fun she is high and if she isn’t then she is just sleeping, or feeling really sick. Also since Ive been trying to help her by just being with her Ive been ignoring things I should be doing for myself which may sound a Little selfish but i feel like on one hand its too much for me to deal with but on the other I want to help her and cant just walk away, she doesn’t really have any friends or family that can help her.

If she doesn’t stop this will kill her.

Oh yea, when I was young my dad died from a drug overdose, that’s probably why this is really close to me.

Please help if you can.

Thankyou

Michael

The sun felt warm on my back as I walked. The air was cool and high in the trees the crows were making a lot of noise. A large blue jay would listen to their noise, fly out to the top, give them a scowling look and then fly back to its perch, deep in the center of the large tree. The crows were quiet for a time, then they would begin again and the blue jay would again repeat his demands. After a few times, the crows seemed to give in to the blue jay and flew off. The blue jay returned to its perch again then I seemed to be the victim of his scowling.

We humans make demands from others because of lack of relationship. Sex becomes a demand from another out of our mundane, uncreative lives. When we are in the depth of our misery, sex with our self or from another becomes all important and poisons the environment by seeking release or outcome from a situation. Lurking in the activity of sex is our own insufficiency and orgasm or sex activity offers us a distraction. Sex for most of us is the only creative thing we have left in life and the fulfillment or orgasm takes our minds off all our daily problems. The way we are conditioned and our so called education is our identity and in it we are shallow human beings and pleasure becomes all important.

Coach Bri