CoachBri’s Blog

The sun felt warm on my back as I walked. The air was cool and high in the trees the crows were making a lot of noise. A large blue jay would listen to their noise, fly out to the top, give them a scowling look and then fly back to its perch, deep in the center of the large tree. The crows were quiet for a time, then they would begin again and the blue jay would again repeat his demands. After a few times, the crows seemed to give in to the blue jay and flew off. The blue jay returned to its perch again then I seemed to be the victim of his scowling.

We humans make demands from others because of lack of relationship. Sex becomes a demand from another out of our mundane, uncreative lives. When we are in the depth of our misery, sex with our self or from another becomes all important and poisons the environment by seeking release or outcome from a situation. Lurking in the activity of sex is our own insufficiency and orgasm or sex activity offers us a distraction. Sex for most of us is the only creative thing we have left in life and the fulfillment or orgasm takes our minds off all our daily problems. The way we are conditioned and our so called education is our identity and in it we are shallow human beings and pleasure becomes all important.

Coach Bri