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What do you to about hurtful things that have been said in the heat of the moment?
If you were the one who the hurtful things were aimed at, and you still feel the pain of the words, and you just don’t feel close to the person that said them, do you tell them? Do you forgive and let go, because you understand that it wasn’t really what the person meant, that it was just due to the anger in the moment?
What if the hurt person is a child and the other an adult? Does it matter?
1:15 pm Mar 20, 2008
coach bri
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Hurt is one of the human problems that must be solved for humankind to be free and be in relationship with each other. No one has the power to hurt anyone unless it is given to them and i am talking about psychological hurt. This hurt is the result of a image you have about yourself and is a reality based on thinking which is the ego mind or clearly the self. Self is the thing that gets hurt and that hurt is a reaction to an image you have of yourself or something put in place to be secure. Yes we all are looking for security and do not realize there isn't any. When you are hurt examine it, look at the image you have created and the mental trap that it is. see the fact that the image you created is an egotistical movement which not only cause pain but insights fear.
it is not important how others treat you it is very important how you treat others. You will find that where you respect people and have no image of them or yourself in any situation, there is no conflict. End all images and don”t create any new one by seeing the danger and disorder of them. Only then can Love break out in relationship.
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